Thanks for your kind review Anna. I will address point by point your perception. I live 7 minutes walking distance from the train. Maybe in the country as you said you don't walk, but for New Yorkers 7 mins, equals to around the corner. My home is 30 minutes away from time square, which means that if it took you 1 or more hour to arrive, you got lost, or missed a train. Only once did you request directions which was to Central Park. Anna, I'm not a mind reader, and I try not to suffocate my guests. You mentioned how scared for your safety you felt late at night, as you should. In Any city females walking at late late hours every night are taking a risk in NYC. I would suggest the next time you make a reservation you do a bit of research. I don't want to think that the reason you didn't feel safe, was because the people around you didn't look like you, that would be racist, and you are not racist correct?
You mentioned I wasn't friendly over text, and I will explain why. It is very inconsiderate to give a host a time to meet, and without having the common decency of calling or sending a message you appeared 8 hours later. I work full time, and the reason I coordinate, it's to accommodate my needs and my guests needs. Next time use empathy, and think that a person would be rightly upset if they had to wait for hours on end for your arrival. Lastly I would like to mention, that for a person who came to my home intoxicated, who peed on the floor of my bathroom and did not clean it up, without even having respect for me and my home, has so many negative things to say. It shows that you have not traveled, and maybe next time you should consider staying with people who look like you, and don't go to a big city and drink until the late hours of the night and expect to be safe. This is the real world. Be a responsible adult,respect yourself, others, and specially the home of a person that allowed two total strangers to stay in.