I am more than a little shocked at your review. You toured the apartment with me before you brought your suitcases and never mentioned any of the problems that you mention in your review. If you had any problems with the apartment later that evening, why didn't you communicate them to me? You knew I was home, you had my phone number. You could have easily contacted me. You are a guest in my house and I would have gladly fixed anything that was wrong.
I really went out of my way to open my house to you. After you canceled your first reservation, you asked for new dates. I had those dates blocked because my family was coming in. But since you live so close to me and we are practically neighbors, I unblocked those dates and accommodated your new reservations. I washed the sheets and towels, mopped the floors, disinfected the bathrooms, left you bottled water and fresh coffee, and moved my family into closer quarters so your family could be there. In other words, we really worked hard to accommodate you even though my family was coming then too.
I know this is your first experience with air bnb, but I have one of the best around. Of the past 27 groups who have stayed with me, 22 have given me perfect 5's on everything. Your rating is the lowest I have ever had and can only chalk it up to your inexperience with air bnb. I try to do my best by my guests and could have easily fixed any problems you found.
If you use air bnb in the future, I would suggest you communicate better with your host. I am not a hotel and like to treat the people who stay with me as guests, doing everything I can to make them welcome.