I'm sorry our listing didn't meet your expectations. We clearly state several places on our listing that the kitchen and living room are an extra $15 per night and should be specially reserved at the time of booking.
About us living upstairs and our children making noise: I thought I was upfront about this also, but apparently something changed with the airbnb website and that information is missing. In our listing description, I have filled out sections that clearly state we are living upstairs and that young children are active by 7:30 AM. However, I just now looked at a preview of our listing as guests view it and I cannot find this information. I am certain that in the past it used to be shown. So I apologize, I thought this information was well communicated but it appears that it is not.