I didn't leave you a review Julia, as I prefer not to leave a review at all rather than a bad one, and give everyone the benefit of doubt. However, I do feel the need to respond to some of the points you raised.
You came to a house knowing there would be children living there. Your attitude during your stay made it clear you are not used to, or enamoured by children.
The walls of my house are normal brick walls - not particularly thin at all, and I don't ever recall asking you not to use your laptop, phone or toothbrush! In fact you seemed to be quite happy sprawled across my sofa every night with your laptop plugged into a socket you had removed my lamp from, watching movies at full volume and patently ignoring me like a grumpy teenager. And despite my listing saying my kitchen is only available for snacks, you cheekily took it over every night, even asking me to provide spaghetti and demanding condiments, and not always cleaning up to the standard you found.
During the week you stayed there were a couple of occasions where my children were upset - that is normal, children cry. And perhaps your ADHD made you over sensitive to their volume, but there was no shouting.
Although you left everything relatively clean and tidy, for which I thank you, you were not the most pleasant of guests, and I was not surprised to hear of the other hosts you told me about, not wanting you back , and even asking you to leave.