Your clock must have been on central European time, because you arrived too early, that is before your checkin time. This I discussed with your boyfriend and I told him I would try to finish up as fast as I could so the two of you wouldn't have to sit in the car for to long in the freezing cold. I apparently hurried to much since I forgot to take out a few empty bottles and I forgot one pot with water in it. You informed me of this and I apologized for having been as thorough as I would have liked.
Having said that - there is a big difference between worn and dirty. It is an old house and some of the interior is worn. Including the old oak table you mention and the floor. It is however clean and the bed are very good.
This flat is not expensive, it is not new but it is cozy, clean and very good value.
I am sorry you did not feel comfortable or welcome, because you were, like all my guests, very welcome.
Ps. I have posted a photo of the floor and the table so future guests can see what is ment.